A Not-Marriage Proposal

"Let me ask you one thing. Do you think,  after we've dried off, after we've spent lots more time together, you might agree not to marry me? And do you think not being married to me might maybe be something you could consider doing for the rest of your life?"
Charles (Hugh Grant), Four Weddings and a Funeral

Funerals and Weddings

"Gareth used to prefer funerals to weddings. He said it was easier to get enthusiastic about a ceremony one had an outside chance of eventually being involved in."
Matthew (John Hannah), Four Weddings and a Funeral